Today we had to tell our spouse three things that bothered us about them and then try to change them.
I don't need to go into all the details of what we said because Lauren typed it all out.
But I do what to go into what I took away from it. As I sat there thinking of things that irk me, I realised that i do all of the same things that irk me, I leave clothes on the floor, i don't change the t.p. roll, and i will sometimes leave lights on if I leave a room. I had never made the connection before. Now that i know, not only am I going to work hard to change what bugs Lauren I am going to work on stop being hypocritical about the little things that peeve me.
Try it, think of things that bother you and then think hard about whether or not you are guilty of the same things. Then the kicker is stopping those habits. I bet you better half knows you do those things and will be pleasantly surprised that you stopped.
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