We were supposed to take 2 sheets of paper a piece and write on one all the negative aspects of our spouse and on the other all the positive. i could only come up with 2 bad things, the good were:
Independent
Strong
Kind
Resourceful
Empathetic
natural leader
Generous
Smart
Spiritual
Then we had to pick the most important one to us and tell our spouse. I chose empathetic because Lauren helped me through a lot of difficult times because of her ability to relate.
The next step was SO cool. W had to take the negative and burn it. Yes we burned them in the sink. It was one of the coolest things ever.
I suggest that every couple do this.
Then we talked about jealousy. The activity was that we had to tell each other what we were proud of the other for. I told Lauren how proud i was about her baking and how amazing she is doing.
Read this book, seriously.
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